Counseling in Austin

ATX Counseling for LGBTQIA+, highly sensitive, high-achieving professionals

You're done acting as if everything's fine.

Lindsey & Kimber-Lea are Queer Therapists offering virtual affirming counseling for LGBT & queer people  in Texas, Vermont, New Hampshire, & Oregon. If you're looking for ATX Counseling and want the flexibility of meeting online, book a consult!
Lindsey & Kimber-Lea are Queer Therapists offering virtual affirming counseling for LGBT & queer people  in Texas, Vermont, New Hampshire, & Oregon. If you're looking for ATX Counseling and want the flexibility of meeting online, book a consult!

You've been staring at the ceiling for the past hour, again. Your brain won't stop as it's running through tomorrow's to-do list; something a coworker said three days ago that you can't let go of; whether you said the wrong thing in that meeting.

You're exhausted in a way that sleep doesn't fix even when you get it. Bone-deep. Soul-deep. You go to bed tired. You wake up even more tired. And in between waking and trying to sleep, you perform, at work, for your coworkers, for friends and family, for everyone who needs something from you, until you get home and collapse into the couch and scroll your phone for hours because your brain is too fried to do anything else but too wired to actually rest. You're drained. Then you go to bed and still can't sleep. Only to repeat the cycle over and over.

You are overwhelmed

The noise in the open office makes your head pound by noon. Fluorescent lights. Side conversations you can't tune out. Someone eating lunch too loudly. It's not that you choose to notice everything all at once, all the time. You just do. Your nervous system never got the memo that some things are supposed to be background noise. By the end of the day you are so overstimulated and wrung out that small talk in the elevator feels like an assault. You want to scream sometimes, just from the accumulated weight of all of it. The sounds, the requests, the labor of reading every room you walk into and adjusting accordingly, solving everyone else's emotions.

You used to love what you do. You remember when you felt sharp and capable and genuinely excited to show up. You felt something like pride in being the person others counted on, the one who got things done right. Now that same thing feels like a trap. Everyone still comes to you. Your boss keeps piling on tasks. Your coworkers treat you like a resource, and you say yes, you'll take care of it. You always say yes.

But the version of you that everyone counts on has forced you into a corner. You built a reputation on being reliable, capable, the one who figures it out, and now that reputation requires everything you have just to maintain. Your drowning in the stress and anxiety of having to do it all. But your scared; if you make one mistake, you're convinced it will all fall apart. You know logically that's not how it works. But you can't seem to shake it.

You feel everything

You feel other people's stress like it's your own. A coworker is having a hard week, and you absorb it, carry it home. Your boss is in a bad mood and your whole nervous system goes on high alert; you spend the rest of the day tiptoeing around, scanning for what you did wrong, trying not to make things worse. You keep thinking if you could just care a little less, like everyone else seems to, this would be so much easier. But you can't. You feel everything so loudly. You always have.

And then there's the thing you don't talk about at work because you're still not sure how safe it is.

You long for safety and community

You're queer and you're out, but being out and being safe are not the same thing, and you've learned that the hard way more than once. The people you work with who genuinely seem to like you, who call you a friend, who come to you when they're struggling: some of them, you know, would vote against your right to exist if given the chance. Have voted against it. Probably will again. And you're supposed to just be their emotional support system? Just keep showing up with your whole open heart for people who see your humanity as conditional? You do it because you need this job.

You wonder sometimes if that's part of why you're so tired. Not just the work. Not just the sensory overwhelm. But the constant low-grade grief of being in community with people who don't fully see you. The performance of being palatable.

You want to reach out to your friends, the real ones, but you can't bring yourself to do it. You don't want to show up as this hollow, drained version of yourself. And if they seem fine and normal, you'll have to perform fine-and-normal back, and that will cost more than you have. So instead, you stay home. You sit on the couch with your pet curled up next to you, the one relationship where you don't have to be anything other than present. Even that has felt harder lately. You noticed it and it worried you.

You need a change.

Because the alternative isn't working and the cost of continuing like this is too high.

You've been dragging yourself out of bed and onto this hamster wheel long enough. You know because some part of you has been keeping track of the months of feeling like this. Collecting proof that this isn't just a phase. The evidence has piled up, and it is telling you: something is actually wrong and you need someone who gets it: the sensitivity, the queer experience, the way those two things tangle together into something that doesn't fit neatly into boxes. Someone who understands that being sensitive isn't a weakness and being queer isn't a footnote. Someone you don't have to educate before you can start actually doing the work.

You’re in the right place. We see you.

We Provide Online Counseling for folks in Texas, Oregon, New Hampshire, and Vermont

This isn't about going back to some earlier version of yourself. It's about something more honest than that, and more sustainable. It's about figuring out who you actually are now, what you truly value, and how you want to live, and then building toward that with intention. With your sensitivity treated as a strength. With your drive pointed somewhere that actually matters to you. That kind of change is real. And it's possible.

If you've been searching for counseling in Austin that truly understands the full picture of your experience, you're in the right place.

At Encompassing Wisdom & Wellness, our therapists are here to help you. We’re Licensed Professional Counselors based in Austin, Texas, offering online counseling for highly sensitive, high-achieving queer people who are exhausted, overwhelmed, and quietly wondering if this is just what life is supposed to feel like.

This isn't what life is supposed to feel like. And you don't have to keep living like it is.

As a queer, nonbinary therapists ourselves and proud members of the LGBTQIA+ community, we built this practice around people like you because we know from personal experience what it costs to move through spaces that aren't made for us.

Being a highly sensitive person isn't a quirk to manage or a liability to work around. It's a whole way of moving through the world, one that comes with real gifts and real costs, and it deserves to be understood on its own terms. The same is true for the queer experience. Not as a side note. Not as a box to check. As a central and meaningful part of who you are and how you've had to navigate a world that hasn't always made room for you.

When both of those things are true at once, the exhaustion you're carrying isn't just burnout in the conventional sense. It's the accumulated weight of feeling everything deeply in environments that weren't built for you, of showing up fully for people who show up for you conditionally, of being the helper in every room while quietly falling apart in the ones where no one's watching. That's a specific kind of tired. And it deserves specific, thoughtful care.

We show up to this work the same way we hope you eventually will: with genuine warmth, curiosity, honesty, a willingness to get uncomfortable, and a good amount of humor. This isn't a clinical transaction. It's a relationship, and we take that seriously. Many clients tell us that one of the most quietly powerful parts of working together is simply being in a space where they don't have to explain themselves before they can start talking. What feels disorienting at first, gradually becomes one of the most grounding parts of the work. Their sensitivity is treated as information, not inconvenience. Their queer identity is woven into the conversation naturally, not addressed once and then set aside. You deserve to been seen and valued as a whole person and celebrated in your entirety.

That's what we want for you here.

Meet The Team

Hello,

I’m Lindsey (they/them)

I’ll work collaboratively with you to help uncover meaning and purpose so you can bring breath back into your life again. I believe in creating a judgement-free space to allow you the freedom to explore yourself more fully and find what’s missing or hidden.

Hello,

I’m Kimber-Lea (they/them)

I’m honored to serve as your guide and provide support for you to reconnect to life. My experiences tell me that you can find meaning from the past, allow comforts in the present, and ignite hope for your continued wellness.

Starting therapy can be scary!
Here’s how it works:


1 - Get Connected

Click Book Your Free Consultation to set up a 20min consultation, free of charge. You can choose a specific consultation time and which therapist you’d like to connect with on our calendars by clicking on the “Book Your Free Consultation” button. We will gladly answer your questions during this call.

2 - Receive Support

Therapy is a process where we’ll collaborate on your goals, build skills to ease your immediate pains, & create a plan specific to your areas of growth. With weekly 45-50 minute appointments you will get the support you need to start building and living the life you want.

3 - Reclaim Your Life

You’ll have opportunities to fulfill the healing you want. You are the expert on you. It’s our job to join with you to explore the how. Together, our shared exploration will create shifts: from hurting to recovering; from insecure to more confident; from stressed-out to grounded.

Frequently Asked Questions

Still have questions? Take a look at the FAQ or reach out anytime through out Contact page here. If you’re ready to dive in, go ahead and book your free consultation.

You don’t have to keep suffering alone and wishing you could change things.

You can nourish your wisdom & discover your version of wellness.